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I saw myself in so many of the listed points, Heather, and I've decided I've had enough confrontation in my life and am not looking for any more. ha ha ha . At my age, I usually just walk away. Not ideal, I know, but there it is! Funny how our priorities change sometimes as we age. Also, I strongly agree with you about not using "but", which negates what someone just said. It is better to use "and" - "I hear what you are saying , AND another way to look at it is...." "Yes, I understand, and another piece to the puzzle is...." "I can see that really makes sense to you, and have you ever thought about...?" That one little word can make all the difference. Thanks for getting me riled up this morning, my friend.

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