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Jun 10, 2023
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Thank you for taking the time to read it. I really appreciate that!

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Ditto!

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Great topic Heather! Brad & I have a few family members that need to practice these skills for sure. Really makes you think about being a more thoughtful listerner!

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Thank you, Donna. You're so right! I feel like the world would be a better place if we just practiced some simple communication skills.

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Three questions I often use to get a friend talking:

1.) What is new and good in your life these days?

2.) Tell me about five good minutes you've had today.

3.) What have you been thinking about / wondering about these days?

I am happy with ANYTHING you send out to us, Heather. It is all positive and inspiring! Thank you.

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These are wonderful! I love them all! Thank you for sharing them, Sharron.

And thank you for your encouragement. As a fellow writer, you know how much that means. 💜

I've been thinking about interviewing people for different perspectives on kindness, gratitude, and what makes the world go 'round. Noodling and ruminating haha!

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Perfect timing. I just finished an email conversation with an internet friend.(?) It didn't go the way I thought it would. Turns out he is going to ghost me. Sometimes we have good intentions, but sometimes those intentions are not asked for - is the moral of that story.

Anywho, Your wisdom and uplifting topics always make me feel good! Thanks, Heather. I like open ended questions. I use "tell me something about yourself that most of your friends don’t know about." in my welcome email. Then I tell people something about me that none of my friends know. Talk soon, Paul

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I'm sorry your conversation didn't have the outcome you had hoped for. I've certainly had my share of those, too. But you're a good person....I can tell by the comments people have made about you when I recommend your Substack, and by the way you write.

And thank you for the vote of confidence. I really appreciate it.

That's a terrific question to ask, especially in your welcome email. What a great way to start a conversation. I imagine you get some very interesting answers!

Happy Monday, Paul.

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Yes, some have been eyeopening 👀

Have a great week, Heather, and thanks, as always for the kind words!

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Thank you for boiling an important process down to 3 memorable steps. And, especially Step 3. I heard a bell ringing when I read it ... "you need to do this" it sounded. BTW, I love magnets and they tend to be all around my living space. You made me think of finding one that captures the idea of a "kindness magnet." I noticed a red heart magnet above my workspace and decided that's it. Thanks!

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Thank you for your comment, Joyce. I agree....Step 3 is the one we are most likely to forget. I'm trying to practice! I love your 'bell ringing'. Such a good mental reminder.

A sweet friend brought me a pretty gold pin from her winter trip to Florida. It says "Kindness is Cool". I don't have magnets at my place, but I'm going to wear the pin as a reminder to be kind.

I'm enjoying reading Gratitude Mojo Cafe. You have excellent ideas about the benefits of gratitude and I always feel good after reading your work. Thanks for that!

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No doubt, humanity needs communication as much as communication needs humanity.

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Hello Magaji. So wonderful to hear from you. Tell me how your kindness initiatives are going. 💜

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It's so commendable how you've kept the Kindness Magnet alive. My project also looks sustainable. Warm regards!

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